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	<title>FALE: Fantastic Adventures of Lex&#039;s Ego &#187; Lessons Learned</title>
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		<title>The Challenge</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 22 Apr 2012 16:48:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Writing is a strange animal. Anyone literate can do it. Just put a pen to paper and be honest or lie. There, it&#8217;s done. But in all my years of writing, I&#8217;ve learned that its accessibility makes it one of the most challenging things a self-criticizing artist (redundant) can do. There are so many ways ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Writing is a strange animal. Anyone literate can do it.  Just put a pen to paper and be honest or lie.  There, it&#8217;s done.  But in all my years of writing, I&#8217;ve learned that its accessibility makes it one of the most challenging things a self-criticizing artist (redundant) can do.  There are so many ways to write, and so many ways to present your writing, that deciding what and how typically inhibits the first word.</p>
<p>I am easily the first villain of crippling my own creativity because I don&#8217;t know the &#8220;where&#8221;.  I only know the &#8220;what&#8221;.  And then I realized that this is my challenge.  I am a writer and I have chosen the path of the rogue. I write screenplays, I write comics, I write books.  All are different.  But today, I&#8217;ve made a discovery.  No matter what I decide to write, or where I decide to write it, I will always be the common denominator.  </p>
<p>And for that, there is nothing to fear.  There is no reason to not start, because the content will always be authentic.  It will always be mine.</p>
<p>A few projects are scattered across my journals, my iPhone and my grey matter.  All of them are incredibly exciting and in my niche.  They&#8217;re big stories, they&#8217;re dark and they have great characters being thrown into fantastic new worlds.  The problem is that all of them are written in completely different mediums.  The context-switching is tough.  It sounds strange to say it, but all the voices in my head make this effort a bit strenuous.  The characters from each of my current projects are ever-present, even when I don&#8217;t want them to be. Perhaps it is because I love them so dearly.  Perhaps it is because they are out to get me&#8230; </p>
<p>But those are my challenges as a writer.  And I will face them.  But I also have challenges as a person.  My first challenge is being an actual person.  I have a great job in marketing/advertisement that is budding into a promising career.  I also have a writing career that is budding into a promising career.  Not to mention a partner, family, friends and most importantly, my cat Zero.  I am nowhere near close to finding a balance.  I&#8217;m actually awful at it.  So at this point, all I can really do is just be better.  </p>
<p>And I will.</p>
<p>-Lex</p>
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		<title>Protected: I am a writer.</title>
		<link>http://lexwhite.com/blog/index.php/2010/05/i-am-a-writer/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 16:55:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lexicon</dc:creator>
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		<title>DAVID FOSTER WALLACE, IN HIS OWN WORDS</title>
		<link>http://lexwhite.com/blog/index.php/2010/03/david-foster-wallace-in-his-own-words/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 01:09:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[There are these two young fish swimming along and they happen to meet an older fish swimming the other way, who nods at them and says &#8220;Morning, boys. How&#8217;s the water?&#8221; And the two young fish swim on for a bit, and then eventually one of them looks over at the other and goes &#8220;What ]]></description>
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<blockquote><p>There are these two young fish swimming along and they happen to meet an older fish swimming the other way, who nods at them and says &#8220;Morning, boys. How&#8217;s the water?&#8221; And the two young fish swim on for a bit, and then eventually one of them looks over at the other and goes &#8220;What the hell is water?&#8221;<br />
&#8211;David Foster Wallace
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<p><a href="http://www.moreintelligentlife.com/story/david-foster-wallace-in-his-own-words" target="_blank">(Read More)</a></p>
<p>Something to think about.  Thanks Matt for passing this along.</p>
<p>-Lex</p>
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		<title>Reading Comics the Right Way</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2010 02:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lexicon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Giving context to music with a great story or giving context to a great story with good music makes all the difference in the world. It is also incredibly therapeutic and could save you a trip to your psychologist.    ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I won&#8217;t pretend that I&#8217;ve been an avid comic reader since I was 6.  Heck &#8212; I barely read 2 comics a month.  And to dig myself into a deeper hole &#8211; I only started re-reading them about a year ago. As a kid I tried reading <em>The Uncanny X-Men</em>, some <em>Amazing Spider Man</em> and a bit of<em> Dazzler</em> but my parents (ie; my mother) never let it become a bona fide hobby.  As an adult nearly two decades later, I can see why.  It&#8217;s a very expensive hobby.</p>
<p>But I have come across a bit of a gold-mine within the art of comic book reading.  A few months ago I stumbled upon <em>The Astonishing X-Men</em> which was &#8212; in part &#8212; written by Joss Whedon, creator of <em>Buffy the Vampire Slayer</em>.  I read the first few issues 1-32 and couldn&#8217;t stop, so leapt to the Hope Trilogy: &#8220;Messiah Complex&#8221;, &#8220;Messiah War&#8221; and &#8220;The Second Coming&#8221; (not yet released).  As I read through them all, I only played two albums: &#8220;The Earth Is Not A Cold Dead Place&#8221; &#038; &#8220;The Rescue&#8221; by <em>Explosions In the Sky</em>.</p>
<p>Call it cheesy, but adding an instrumental soundtrack like that to an already epic, heart-wrenching apocalyptic storyline changes the entire experience.  I&#8217;m not as big on music as I am on story, but the two combined &#8211;astonishingly&#8211; force each other to translate so much more clearly.  Seeing Kitty Pryde ripped away from Peter (twice), just makes more emotional sense with &#8220;First Breath After Coma&#8221; or &#8220;Day Six&#8221; in the background.  I can&#8217;t listen to any song on those albums &#8212; even without a comic in my hands &#8211;without feeling a sense of love and doom all at the same time.</p>
<p>Giving context to music with a great story or giving context to a great story with good music makes all the difference in the world. It is also incredibly therapeutic and could save you a trip to your psychologist.     </p>
<p>Just my $.02<br />
-Lex</p>
<p>P.S. &#8230;<br />
<strong>The Astonishing X-Men</strong><br />
<img src="http://lexwhite.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/1075387-78509_49743_kitty_pryde_super_super-150x150.jpg" alt="" title="1075387-78509_49743_kitty_pryde_super_super" width="150" height="150"/><br />
<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astonishing_X-Men" target="_blank">http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astonishing_X-Men</a></p>
<p><strong>Explosions In the Sky</strong><br />
<img src="http://lexwhite.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/cloud2-300x127.jpg" alt="" title="cloud2" width="300" height="127" /><br />
<a href="http://www.explosionsinthesky.com/">http://www.explosionsinthesky.com</a></p>
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		<title>Today I Filed My Taxes</title>
		<link>http://lexwhite.com/blog/index.php/2009/04/today-i-filed-my-taxes/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 01:06:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lexicon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I can think of better ways to spend 4 hours. Lesson Learned: Make $0/yr. -Lex]]></description>
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I can think of better ways to spend 4 hours.
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Lesson Learned: Make $0/yr.
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<p>
-Lex</p>
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		<title>Today is not Friday</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Apr 2009 01:23:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today is not Friday from Lex White on Vimeo. Lesson Learned: Look at the calendar before you think today is a good day. -Lex]]></description>
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Lesson Learned: Look at the calendar <i>before</i> you think today is a good day.<br />
<br />
-Lex</p>
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		<title>I Got Off My Ass Today</title>
		<link>http://lexwhite.com/blog/index.php/2009/03/i-got-off-my-ass-today/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Mar 2009 08:05:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>lexicon</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My hosting administrator sent me an e-mail a month ago threatening to shut down my blog until I upgraded to version 2.7 of Word Press. I&#8217;ve apparently had this blog for so long and have been so poor at upgrading the database that my blog alone had become a serious security threat the billions of ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My hosting administrator sent me an e-mail a month ago threatening to shut  down my blog until I upgraded to version 2.7 of Word Press.  I&#8217;ve apparently had this blog for so long and have been so poor at upgrading the database that my blog alone had become a serious security threat the billions of other websites on the world wide web.  But rather than be the diligent, responsible webmaster I should have been, I chose to ignore the request and simply avoid updating my blog.  For some reason I figured if I just didn&#8217;t update my blog, maybe he&#8217;d forget that I needed to upgrade at all.</p>
<p>Well, he didn&#8217;t forget and my blog was removed.  Arg.  A little in shock and a little ticked off (I never make any backups) I begged for an extension and my account was temporarily restored.  Saved, I thought.  But not quite.  I once again avoided upgrading the WP database, hoping that he&#8217;d soon forget.  Nope.  This time he didn&#8217;t take it down.  He just made it ugly and erased all my hard-earned themes, leaving me with a that sick Classic blue and white theme.</p>
<p>Okay Hosting Administrator, I got it.  I upgraded the damn thing.</p>
<p>You win.</p>
<p>P.S. &#8211; Did I mention I lost eeeeveerything during my ugprade?</p>
<p>-Lex</p>
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